Adrenal rush of love a.k.a initial gragra (ABUAD VARIANT) dangerous precept

You meet a guy or a lady somewhere around school, Cafeteria or somewhere...or take a girl's number and chat her up..and you hit if off immediately with the person, both of you can't seem to hear enough of each other's voice,chatting became so regular and you just start to imagine being around the person always and every form of idiosyncrasies of that person feels so cool with you and you begin to
believe there is a great chemistry between both of you when you block the first night, and then you keep on seeing each other and you just can't shake off the feeling that you have met the right person,that there's no more fuckboys/girls

Then after a short while,maybe days,weeks or months the communication dwindles...you rarely chat,no phone calls,awkward convos,avoiding and you even care less if such person exists and you tend to ask if that was the same person you felt so magnetized to in just recent past.

You meet another person and then the foolish circle begins just to go the previous way and on and on you experience this never ending tidal wave of affection

This is known as adrenal rush of love otherwise called initial gragra and many people have made serious mistakes confusing this for the real thing.

Many people have left a promising affair for another person as a result of this false feeling,many ladies have crossed the line to get used, loose their virginity, and even get pregnant (Some maybe raped..2k suya..lol)for a guy who does not really want them during this stage and some people have destroyed their solid relationships by having an affair with another person just because of this crazy imaginary feeling while some girls have given the guy their "all" during this stage just to realize later that what they felt was just a flimsy wave of initial thunderbolt of a made believe affection.

No matter how crazy you feel at the start towards that person,please slow down and start as friends. Give it time like a year and make sure you observe that person keenly for red flags and you will come to know better if what you are feeling is the real deal or just a passing,flimsy,tidal facade called adrenal rush of desire which i call initial gragra.

Trust me, I waited more than a year and it turned out to be a mere Facade, now all I can do is lament the valuable time wasted!

Nonetheless!No matter what, take your time.


This is a modified variant of the original copy on the much acclaimed Nairaland.