God loves me!

So today I went to church and it was all about the ladies. It was beautiful, we got to appreciate ourselves in our bits and pieces.


So as one would expect there was a relationship talk and it was strange how we all spoke about virginity and all sort. Don’t get me wrong being a virgin is beautiful, in fact I would encourage it but what if I am not? What if I lost it? Am I forever condemned? Would the man made for me be changed? Will my marriage be ungodly and not blessed? There are so many what ifs and a lot of them I can’t even figure out.

One thing we tend to forget is that when Jesus says ‘YOU ARE FORGIVEN’ you are really forgiven. You had a past, I had a past and no matter how much you bring yourself down for it, it will never change. You pick up yourself, dust yourself up and move on. Easier said than done right? Yes I know, but that’s why Jesus sends us The Holy spirit. He helps us out. You can’t do it alone.

You remember how you want to pray and the devil reminds you that you are a sinner and even quotes the bible to you; tells you how the prayer of a sinner is an abomination to God, so you start thinking and pondering, then the devil makes you guilty about everything you have ever done and even makes up stories in your head. This continues for some time and slowly you run away from God.

I don’t know who I’m typing this for but I’m hoping to help someone out today. ‘GOD LOVES YOU IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT YOU WERE AND WHAT YOU ARE’. When Jesus says you are forgiven you are given another opportunity; don’t let the devil or the words of people who are sanctimonious push you away from this redemption.

You are too hard on yourself, just like a child who wants to walk falls several times before walking several times so also we fall sometimes in our race. Or even times when we fall as adults, because you consider yourself ‘a mature Christian’ doesn’t mean you don’t fall. But what do you do when you fall?

God love is fascinating and most times I am wowed by his love. He loves us so much that He is not expecting perfection all at once; He is there because we are weak and imperfect, and because He knows we will fall and when we do He is there to carry us up again.

Romans 8:1 and 2 says ‘With the arrival of Jesus, the Messiah, that fateful dilemma is resolved. Those who enter into Christ’s being here-for-us no longer have to live under a continuous, low-lying black cloud. A new power is in operation. The spirit of life in Christ, like a strong wind, has magnificently cleared the air, freeing you from a fated lifetime of brutal tyranny at the hands of sin and death’ Message bible.

We are free from every condemnation and the devil knows this and deep down in your heart you know this too. Don’t beat yourself and keep asking for forgiveness for something God has forgiven you for. You deserve to be loved by God, You deserved to be loved by God and yes, you deserve to be loved by God. Say it as many times as you can. God loves me, God loves you and God loves us all.

It doesn’t just apply to virginity, it applies to everyone. Even Paul who saw himself as the worst of sinners was deeply loved by God and we all know who He was.




You are redeemed, stop letting the devil tell you otherwise. It won’t be easy to get over whatever it is but trust God through the process, He loves you too much to leave you when you need him the most. It’s not about heaven and hell, it’s about Gods love, baby...