How can you make a girl to fall in love with you?
I want to make something very clear right now.
And what is that?
Here it is: "Simply telling a girl that you like her will not make her to like you back". It doesn't work that way.
In one of African China's song he said something like: "If you Love someone walk up to her and tell her you love her". Lol, i like Faze but mehn - that advice is a bad advice like mad.
You see, girls don't just decide that they want to like you. They just don't wake up and say "Ok, this guy has been asking me out for a long time - let me trip for him abeg"
it doesn't work that way. it is not a logical decision. Falling in love is not something a girl decides to do.
I just hope you are getting this.
Since a girl don't just decide to start loving a guy WHY THEN do you try to ask a girl to like you?
How do guys do this?
Some days ago i had this chat with a guy who asked a girl out and she turned him down. Then he started doing what most guys who just don't get it always do.
- He took the girl out and kept telling her how he feels about her.
- Then he started buying her gifts
- calling her every time to try and CONVINCE her to like him.
BAD MOVE. BAD MOVE. BAD MOVE.
When it comes to making a girl fall, forget logic - the key is to press her emotional buttons. When it comes to love, a girl first falls illogically for a guy and then use logic to back it up.
Now i will show you what to do to switch ON a girl's emotional button so she will fall for you.
Come with me...
There are three main strategies i use to switch on a girl's emotional switch and make her interested in me.
#1: Emotionally Unattached Strategy
#2: Confuse Her Strategy.
#3: My Kiss Test Strategy.
And trust me when i say these strategies works. i have used it for years and they RARELY fail. I am sure they would work for you too.
Let's take them one by one.
EMOTIONALLY UNATTACHED STRATEGY
(Lol, most girls won't like this one.)
You see, when most guys like a girl they start looking for the girl's approval. Na this kind guys babes dey use play wella. They call her all the time, they say the nicest thing JUST not to offend her, they shower her with praises at the slightest oppourtunity.
Sure enough, girls consider this type of guys as "nice". They even go as far as saying: 'He is nice, but i no fit date am".
A girl once told me that the reason she broke up with her boyfriend was because the guy "WAS TOO NICE".
Can you imagine?
Now i will give you the laws of "emotional unattached strategy".
-# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.
Women like men that are in control.
-# Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, the author explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way he explained them and she would never think of friend zoning you.
- # Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article - just get this. I don't preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy - you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.
Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:
- They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
- They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: "Call me now, you never call me. Call me now"
Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is "weak"
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Watch out for the continuation next week.
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